Post-Concert and FOMO Blues: We’ve All Been There
Laura and Kelly - Chicago Night 2
So, here we are. j-hope’s "Hope on the Stage" concerts are over. You might be feeling like a part of you is still in that stadium, basking in the light pulsing from your ARMY Bomb, screaming your lungs out to "Hope World" and “Sweet Dreams”, and losing your minds when “Mic Drop” started. Or you finally got to scream the fan chant, or hear Hobi tell us: “I’m your hope. You’re my hope. I’m j-hope!” Believe me, I get it. It’s tough. The music, the connection, the excitement—it’s like a euphoric high, and then suddenly... the magic… it’s gone, and j-hope has exited the stage.
Chicago Day 1
The Aftermath: It’s Real, But So Are We
I’m learning that after a concert that means so much, there's this heavy silence that can hit you like a ton of bricks. The adrenaline rush fades, and all of a sudden, you're back to your regular life, but it doesn’t quite feel right. The photos you took now seem a little too still, the videos you recorded don’t have the same magic they did in person, the ARMY friends around you have returned home, and don’t even get me started on trying to find something that matches that energy or unity in your daily routine. It’s just not possible.
That feeling of loss, of missing something so impactful - that’s all real. You’ve been a part of something bigger than yourself, possibly with friends you’ve come to love—an unforgettable experience that left a mark on your soul. And now you’re back in the real world, those ARMY friends not so close anymore and Hobi feels a universe away.
Plane Fun!
The Secret to Overcoming PCD (Post-Concert Depression)
First of all, we have to give ourselves some grace. It’s okay to feel a little down after an experience like that. How can we not? We were riding a wave of pure energy, joy, and HOPE and when it crashes, it leaves a Hope-Sized hole. But you know what? That hole can also be filled with some really amazing things. So let’s talk about how to pick ourselves back up after the concert haze:
Relive the Moments: Go back to the setlist. Watch the videos. Crank up that playlist and let yourself remember all the joy you felt in the moment. Sometimes, it’s about cherishing those memories instead of feeling like you're missing out. The concert happened, and it was everything. Now, let those memories keep fueling you.
Talk About It: Seriously. If you’re not sharing your post-concert thoughts with the rest of us in the Discord, what are you even doing? Get on the ARMY Project 529 Discord, tweet it out, call your ARMY friends, or even tell your pet chickens (I do this all the time, no judgment). Our community is our greatest therapy, and we’re feeling the same way you are.
Shift Your Focus: It’s easy to focus on what’s missing after a concert, but how about we flip the script? Let’s talk about what’s next. BTS isn’t going anywhere, and neither is ARMY Project 529. We’ve got so much more coming—streaming events, new content, new releases, and plenty of ways to stay connected. The magic doesn’t have to end just because the concert did.
I know some of you weren’t able to make it to the Hope on the Stage concerts, and I just want to take a moment to acknowledge that. Maybe it was timing, distance, finances, or something else that kept you from being there, and I get how hard that can be. It's easy to feel left out or like you're missing out on something huge, especially when everyone around you is still riding the high of that incredible experience.
But listen up—whether you were in the crowd, watching from home, or had to sit this one out for whatever reason, you're still a vital part of this ARMY family. Missing the concert doesn’t make your love for BTS any less valid or real. If anything, it’s proof of your dedication to the fandom, even when circumstances didn’t align.
The magic of BTS doesn't exist only in the stadiums or in front of the stage. It’s in every one of us, no matter where we are. The energy we all share as a community—whether we’re at a concert or sitting on our couches—is what keeps this fandom alive and thriving. So, don’t let yourself feel like you missed out on something you can’t get back.
San Antonio
The Fun Stuff: Let’s Laugh a Little
Now, because we need to keep this light too, let’s laugh about it. Post-concert depression might be real, but so are the ridiculous things we do to fill that hole. I don’t know about you, but I might have gone a little overboard buying BTS merch after the concert. You know, just to keep the vibe alive. Can’t stop, won’t stop. And honestly, I’m proud of it. 🤷♀️ (And don't even think about judging my j-hope letterman’s jacket—it's a collector’s item, okay?)
LA Night 1
In Closing: You’re Not Alone
We’re all in this together, and AP529 is here to help you through the blues, even if it’s just by posting funny memes to remind you that we're all a little broken-hearted after a show, sharing photos, joining the watch parties or just lurking in the background of the threads.
So hang in there! And if you're still feeling the aftershocks, just know I'm right there with you, riding this rollercoaster with my BTS playlists on repeat and an AP529 mug full of hope (and probably coffee... lots of coffee).
Borahae,
Stefne
